Life, complications and everything in between

Sometimes we get choices in life, what we want to be, what we aspire to be and everything else in between. I think what gets complicated is the in between stuff because what do we do when we find what it is we want to bee, then we accomplish are aspirations and all that's left is the in-between stuff? I think it's hard to have a strong grasps on life when everything else seems so chaotic. I'm going off to college in a year and i realized that i haven't accomplished any of my aspirations, or even decided what i am remotely interested in studying not to get started on the in-between's. Like relationships,friendships,school,work, family,and e.c.t. How are we as people suppose to get anything done when we can't even figure out the simple stuff? When does life start getting simple when even the simplest task are still even too complicated to figure out. Till i figure this out i guess i'm stuck in this sick twisted game we call life.